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Teaching Kona How to Exist
When we first got Kona, she had already lived with two different owners. Her first was a college student who kept her kenneled for most of her first year of life. Her second was a foster home with two dogs, two cats, and more than a dozen children—where, once again, Kona spent much of her time in a kennel. By the time she came to us, she had spent roughly the first eighteen months of her life confined. Because of that, she had no real understanding of how to simply exist in
Jessica Pohlman
Dec 30, 20253 min read


It’s Not Your Dog — It’s the Conversation You Didn't Know You Were Having
Let’s get this out of the way: Your dog isn’t plotting against you. They’re not stubborn. And they DEFINITELY didn’t wake up wondering how to ruin your day. If anything, the only chaotic creature in the room… might be you. People love to say their dog is “being dramatic.” But the truth? Most dogs aren’t dramatic — they’re confused. Usually because we’re sending mixed signals like a malfunctioning turn signal. Last month I worked with a dog everyone swore was “stubborn” and “s
Jessica Pohlman
Nov 18, 20253 min read


Finding the Right Dog for Your Family: More Than Just Puppy Love
There’s a moment when you say, “We’re getting a dog!” and it feels like the start of something magical. You picture happy kids, long...
Jessica Pohlman
Sep 17, 20253 min read


The Day You Realize They're Getting Old
“You were with me through so many seasons of life. I just wish I could hold on to this one a little longer.” It doesn’t happen all at...
Jessica Pohlman
Jul 17, 20254 min read


Raising a Preteen Daughter: The Wild Ride No One Warned Me About
The Shift You Don’t See Coming One minute, she was asking me to braid her hair and singing Disney songs off-key in the backseat. The...
Jessica Pohlman
May 27, 20255 min read


Welcome to My Home Zoo: Fur, Claws, Scales, and Absolute Chaos (With Occasional Heroics)
I don’t live in a house. I live in a zoo. And not the kind with tidy exhibits and tranquil animal enclosures. No, this is more of a...
Jessica Pohlman
May 20, 20255 min read


Title: Where Did All the Villages Go? Why So Many Moms Are Feeling Alone—and How We Can Change That
I've heard stories where there was a time when motherhood was loud with laughter and quiet with support. A time when women helped raise...
Jessica Pohlman
May 7, 20256 min read


Invisible Battles: Living With Illness in a World That Moves Too Fast
Some mornings, getting out of bed feels like climbing Everest. Not because I stayed up too late binge-watching TV or chasing kids, but...
Jessica Pohlman
Apr 21, 20254 min read


Marriage: A Rollercoaster With No Safety Bar
Marriage is one of those wild rides that no amount of premarital counseling, Pinterest boards, or romantic comedies can truly prepare you...
Jessica Pohlman
Apr 7, 20255 min read


The Laundry Shrinkage Incident
Marriage is built on love, laughter, and the occasional laundry mishap. My husband, Jarred, is a wonderful man—thoughtful, helpful, and...
Jessica Pohlman
Feb 10, 20252 min read


The Great Glitter Catastrophe
Raising girls is a lot like trying to navigate a tornado while wearing roller skates—it’s wild, unpredictable, and someone is always...
Jessica Pohlman
Feb 10, 20252 min read


Parenting, Writing, and Renovating: A Day in Jess's Life
In the fast-paced world of parenting, writing, and renovating, every day brings new challenges and triumphs for Jess, the creative mind...
Jessica Pohlman
Feb 10, 20252 min read
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