This Is My Beautiful Mess

Welcome to my world of chaos! I am Jess, a writer, parent, spouse, and multitasker extraordinaire. Join me as I navigate the joys and struggles of raising kids, writing a book, managing a marriage, caring for animals and training dogs, and renovating a house. My blog is a blend of humor, authenticity, and real-life experiences. In here, we discuss everything life throws at us so just like me in real life... You never know what you're going to get! Embrace the Mess!

My girl ❤️

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Writing this was hard, recording it was even harder but living with it is almost unbearable.

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Finding the Right Dog for Your Family: More Than Just Puppy Love

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Raising a Preteen Daughter: The Wild Ride No One Warned Me About

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The Tale of the Tripod

As many of you are aware, things at The Pohlman Zoo are always a little chaotic but usually the other 3 fur kids are the ones causing all the drama!

Our almost 11 year old, 16 pound "mountain lion" (as he's been dubbed by the vet) has been the healthiest, cheapest 😆, and the least-drama-causing pet we've ever had! Until last week.

This little dude had been limping so I took him to the vet for X-rays. Thankfully nothing was broken but he did have a torn ligament that required surgery. He was dropped off for surgery and soon after I got a call informing me they couldn't reattach it to anything as the bone itself was actually "dissolving".

There's no obvious reason as to what was causing the bone issues or if it would spread so we had to make the tough decision to amputate his leg to help ensure he could live the rest of his life as healthy as he had the first half.

Mr Rupert is home now and recovering well! He's salty about being locked away in the laundry room and he's doing his best learning how to get around but he's getting plenty of cuddles and pain meds to help him through it. ❤️

I need to say a HUGE thank you to Glacial Lakes Vet Clinic for all their awesome work, support and reassurance! It was a huge shock for all of us and it's changed our way of life for now in ways we weren't prepared for but they took great care of Rupert and were very patient through all my calls and millions of questions.

I also had some amazing family and friends who helped me get prepared mentally and prepare the house for our new Tripod, specifically Abby Bean and Sam Lair . I could not have done this without your tips and especially your words of encouragement! Thank you both SO much! ❤️

We still have a long road helping Rupert navigate this new life but we're lucky to still have this "little" guy around. ❤️

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Here's a fun trick to teach your dog!

"Bow"
Lure the dog into a bow position by holding a treat near the ground between their front paws. Reward them when they hold the bow.

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Same field, same little girl, just 8 years later ❤️

Always my baby

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There's something so special about being there for your fur babies as they age ❤

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Reading to Miss Lady Bugs

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Happy 11th Birthday to my baby girl!

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Concert night with my mini me!

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We received the news recently that our first foster, the sweetest 8 yr old, 80lb "puppy" who ever lived, Duke, had gone on to the rainbow 🌈 bridge.

It was heartbreaking learning of his cancer diagnosis and knowing his owner had to make this hard decision, but I am so grateful we got to be part of Duke's story. ❤️

He went from what we referred to as a 'prison cell' to our home where he learned how to be a dog, and then to his forever home; where he got to be loved on, happy and free the last few years of his life.

If you're able to, foster. Love the dogs who may not know what that feels like. It hurts like h*ll when they leave you, but dang... The love and trust they give you in return and seeing them happy in their forever home is SO worth it!

Pictured below:
1. The day I picked up Duke and brought him home
2. The day he got his very first, much needed groom
3. Duke so happy in his forever home
4. A little memorial to Duke we have in our home

Sundays are for very "little" helpers and extremely big dogs ❤️

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I can't believe it's only April and I'm already posting this but...
After a run yesterday afternoon we brought our dogs inside only to discover TICKS! 🤢

When checking for ticks, make sure your looking in your dog's ears, mouth and between their p paw pads too!

Meet Hoyter!

I got to have the pleasure of meeting this sweet boy and having him in the shop for company today ♥️

Another awesome transformation!

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We're back in the shop!! 🎉

Although I'm still selective on the size of dog and how many dogs I can take in a day, it's so nice to see your pups again! ❤️

I'm working on an amazing doodle this morning and had to share one of my favorite tools in the shop.

This de-matting brush is a MUST for dogs with double coats (most doodles and other doodle mixes have these types of coats) on top of the regular brushes you use daily on your dogs. This does not need to be used every day but even fully brushed, you'll notice a difference in your dog's coat because this gets all the shedded hair and fur that can get caught up in the undercoat (Yes, doodles do shed! Just not the same way other dogs do). Regular brush's bristles usually just glide over the top of the undercoat and give the appearance of a fully brushed coat.
When grooming, clippers get caught in the undercoat or can leave odd marks and indents if the undercoat isn't brushed out which can lead to your groomer charging more for time/dematting when you didn't feel any mats before dropping them off.

You can get this brush at any pet supply store or Amazon and they are *usually* under $20.

If you want more tips and tricks to getting your dog's coat looking and feeling it's best or keeping costs down at the groomer's, let me know! 😊

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I'm not sure if I'm excited for all this snow we're going to get because my floors won't be muddy for awhile, or if I'm annoyed because I'm so ready for spring! 😆

Ladies, gentlemen and all my favorite 4-legged friends!

I am currently out of the shop with a back injury so I'll need to be rescheduling a few appts from this upcoming week into the following week.

Thank you all for understanding! This is just a short-term thing and I'll be back to full capacity training and grooming ASAP!

When I'm back, a few of you (depending on the dog and the time of day) may even get to meet the newest addition to the family, Bugs! 🦎 He absolutely loves the sun that comes in from the big window in the shop and likes to check out the other animals *from afar*. 😆😆

When you get to start your day off with a cute face like this, is it really work??

Mr Bogey is all about the snuggles today! ❤️

Yesterday was a day of Sadie's!

I got to start and end my day with a Sadie and this little lady who came in for a deshed was a perfect ending. ❤️

Just look at that sweet face!

Welcome to the Ridgeline family, Sadie! 💞

A great thing to keep in mind when ordering flowers tomorrow!

I always knew there was a reason I loved roses and sunflowers 😊

I ❤️ these transformations!

It didn't hurt either that Grover was super sweet and cuddly too. 😉
He left looking and feeling like a totally new dog!

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"Although you see the world
Different than me
Sometimes I can touch upon
The wonders that you see
And all the new colors
And pictures you've designed
Oh, yes, sweet darling
So glad you are a child of mine
You don't need directions
You know which way to go
And I don't want to hold you back
I just want to watch you grow
You're the one who taught me
You don't have to look behind

Oh, yes, sweet darling
So glad you are a child of mine

Nobody's gonna kill your dreams
Or tell you how to live your life
There'll always be people to make it hard for a while
But you'll change their heads when they see you smile
The times you were born in
May not have been the best
But you can make the times to come
Better than the rest
I know you will be honest
If you can't always be kind

Oh, yes, sweet darling
So glad you are a child of mine." Carole King

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Coming tonight!!

RLC's version of the 12 days of Christmas...

Day 1 of The 12 Days of Brain Games for your dog!

Stay tuned! 😊

Due to concerns regarding the new respiratory illness in dogs that has been spreading around the nation, RLC will be foregoing all cancelation policies for the next 30 days (date subject to change).

While I'm not aware of any cases in SD currently, I do want to be mindful of everyone traveling this time of year, visiting family with dogs as well as boarding their dogs.

If you have questions about this policy change, please ask!

If you have concerns about the illness in question, please see your vet and/or consult a reputable site (I like avma.org personally) as I am not in a position to give medical advice.

This gorgeous girl got to visit the shop this weekend and we had a great time. 😊

She's full of energy, sass and so much love!

I feel so lucky to have Miss Nala (and her wonderful family) as part of RLC! ♥️🐾

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Here is Benny's absolute FAVORITE way to get fed!

It's super easy to teach with a food-motivated dog and it's a great way to enrich their minds while giving a little bit of exercise too.
You can gradually increase the difficulty and to the dog, it's like a new game every time you move the button.

Let me know if you need tips or tricks on this and I can send you the link too.

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I'm finally done in the shop for the night after a day of all working dogs. ♥️ If you know me well, you know how much I absolutely love working dogs.

Smart, fun, brave, hard-working and their personalities are huge!

So when this happened today and my daughter took a video I just knew I had to share it. This was Miss Bluebelle's first visit at RLC and I'm not sure who enjoyed it more... Me, my daughter or Bluebelle! 🐕

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The shop kitty is back! ♥️

Miss Dixie 🐈‍⬛ is back to greet the pups coming into the shop!

The last few months have been more difficult for her as she's been adjusting to a whole new life being deaf.

She's still our sweet Old Lady who wants to be involved in everything, we're just more careful with her now. 😆

Has anyone else dealt with a huge life change like this with their pet? I'd love any advice you have!

Miss Zoey is just about the cutest puppy ever, especially with her new cut!

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Especially with all the rain we've had lately! 😆

Look at this cutie!

My photography skills don't do Louie or his new cut any justice but I thought you all could use a dose of adorable-ness tonight.

He also gives really great snuggles!

You all know by now that my photography skills are non-existent, but I just had to get a picture of sweet Izzy yesterday. 😍
It was a great re-opening day!

Thank you all for being so patient while I took the time to recover. It's so nice being back in the shop!

There's always room for one more, right?? 😉

Just a girl and her dogs 💕

Some of my favorite memories growing up were with my dogs.

Show me your kiddos with their pups! ⬇️⬇️

I LOVE watching herding dogs.

There is something so inspiring and mesmerizing about watching these dogs do what they were born to do; what they love to do. ♥️

Thank you, thank you, thank you to everyone who has sent messages, gifts, called or stopped by in the weeks since my surgery! ♥️ It has all meant so much to me.

There have been a few set-backs and I've had to hold off opening the shop this month but I finally have my "go" date and I can start taking pups on Oct 2nd!!

I do have the first 2 weeks blocked off so those who had to reschedule before my surgery can get priority.
(Also, if you were one who rescheduled and I don't have your dog booked yet--please message me!)

I'm so excited to be back in the shop! I am giving myself a little extra time for each groom to start as my energy isn't quite up to par yet but that will not effect the price of the groom.

One week left!! I'll see you all soon! 😁

Here's your Tuesday morning reminder to get your dog out for a walk BEFORE the middle of the day to keep them cooler and not hurt their paw pads.

Even an indoor dog needs access to plenty of shade and water on days like this!

This is by far one of my favorite transformations!

From a Poodle mix to a lab! 😆

It's always fun seeing sweet Sadie. The smile on her face always puts a smile on mine. ♥️

Happy Monday morning!

💥ANNOUNCEMENT💥

I will be having surgery next week and am planning on being out of commission until the end of October at the very latest. (Hopefully sooner!)

I have expanded hours this week to get everyone in who had later appts BUT I do have a select few left if your pup needs in asap.
Please know I will be taking the more 'dire' cases first such as those with severe matting and/or anxiety, health or behavioral issues as these pups would have a more difficult time finding a temporary groomer if needed.

I do have a fellow groomer in Watertown who has graciously agreed to be an emergency back up.

Please let me know if you need in before the 14th and I'll do my best to fit you in!

Thank you all for understanding and feel free to send or post your pup pictures in the meantime! 😊♥️

I'm just finishing up in the shop after a very long day but I couldn't let it end without sharing this adorable face! 😍😍

Mr Milo was the best boy this morning! I just love having him in the shop.

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